How To Make A Party More Fun For Non-Drinkers

For quite a lot of people, Christmas can be a bit of a struggle. Drinking alcohol over Christmas is part of British culture, and it can be extremely difficult for those who are non-drinkers. Some might not drink due to health reasons, and some might not drink to due to religious reasons.

However, there are also quite a few people who tend to struggle with controlling their alcohol intake, and are completely clean. Some people tend to be a lot more sensitive to addiction, and alcohol can become a dangerous and destructive force in their life. For those that are in rehab, it can be extremely difficult to abstain your urge to drink over the festive season, as everybody around you is drinking, while you are a non-drinker.

As a family member, friend or partner, you can do your bit too to ensure the non-drinkers will not feel excluded.  A few pointers on how to be more inclusive for the abstainers in your life.

1.     Do not judge, as you do not know what goes on

Strangely enough, being a non-drinker at a party has become a anomality. In a sense, alcohol is a tool for people to lower their inhibitions at social events, and to feel less socially awkward. This might lead to a general misconception to the idea that if you don’t want to drink, you’re boring.

That couldn’t be further from the truth. A lot of people have their valid reasons for not drinking as stated above, and no one should be making them feel singled out.

2.     Do not ask too many questions, and respect their privacy

A lot of the reasons for abstaining from alcohol, are personal. Asking someone why they don’t drink is at a social event can become a quite sensitive subject at the dinner. You can always ask them when you’re sober.

3.     Accommodate

If you could accommodate those who are abstaining from alcohol, it would go a long way to make the non-drinkers feel more comfortable at the event. This way they would not be pressured into doing things they do not want to do. A recovering alcoholic might feel that it’s the occasion to give in and make excuses to drink

4.     That includes changing traditions (a bit)

When everyone is having one of those drinks you used to have during better times, when your parents used to pour you just one glass of mulled wine, as a non-drinker you might feel lonely and excluded. That’s why some simple, alcohol-free eggnog could help your non-drinking guests feel warm and snugly too.

5.     Sobriety can be fun too

If someone is sober, that does not mean that they’re no fun whatsoever. There are enough people in the world, who can also party without needing a substance to fuel their wild side. You might also risk alienating your friend/family member, as that sends out an insulting message if you don’t get invited for not drinking .

6.     No Pressure!

There is nothing worse than pressuring a person into drinking. You must realise, again, that a person might do something that can have repercussions for them. Would you want to be that person that pressured an ex-alcoholic back down the pitfall of alcohol abuse?

7.     Enjoy yourself

No non-drinker will purposefully make you feel guilty. If a teetotal person goes to a Christmas party, they surely know that alcohol will be served throughout the night. No need to keep apologising for having a drink.

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